For those of you who might be wondering, Pam and Rob joined us for Thanksgiving last week. Those who waste their precious time reading me know that Rob had his left leg amputated last Labor Day and has been undergoing chemotherapy.
I’m glad to report Rob is doing well. Chemo is now complete and he will be scanned in early December.
He is feeling well, has a good attitude and has become quite mobile. He can move from his bed to his chair with little difficulty and from his wheelchair to the front seat of Pam’s car. He is now using the van only for hospital visits. He accomplishes this by using an old-fashioned walker to stand from the wheelchair and move a short distance to the passenger seat
They have gone to the theater twice as well as the electronics store Best Buy last week. My nephew Gary and his wife Kelly graciously hosted Thanksgiving this year. Pam and Rob made it and came to my home for pizza last Saturday.
They stayed at their own home, on their own, from Wednesday evening through Sunday night when Rob returned to his parent’s home as Pam prepared for work Monday.
I am immensely proud of them both for his positive attitude and for the way Pam has grown as a person.
Meanwhile, our families have paid off their home, disposed of one car and reduced expenses to the basics. We want them to think only of being well and returning to a level of normalcy.
Pictures of the players.
Hosts Gary and Kelly
Vic and Tina
Joe and Jackie
Coffee and conversation
Marie and I
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Well done to all of your family for ‘stepping up’ in the best way possible. And to Rob, for his great positive attitude to a life-changing illness. And not least, Pam. She has proved to be not only a wonderful wife, but a great person. (We always knew she was, I know.) You should be proud. I am proud of them from 4,400 miles away, in another country.
Best wishes, Pete.
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You’re pulling my heart out Pete.
Many thanks
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It takes special people to put the needs of others above their own. What a blessing to be immersed in a family with so much love. Good bless you all, Frank.
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What a beautiful update
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A lovely Thanksgiving for sure. Thanks for sharing.
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My goodness! I have a lump in my throat. First, from the great news about Rob’s healing and about Pam being a superhero. Secondly, for your wonderful family, coming together in a time of crisis, and supporting Pam and Rob financially and emotionally. I wish every family had the blessings of your family. Really. Best to you, Frank.
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Many thanks Jennie. Will keep you all posted here.
Best from Florida
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Thank you, Frank. I’ll look forward to your updates. Sending you heartfelt wishes from Massachusetts
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