Toritto’s Travels

Toritto in Massaua, Eritrea

I’ve had a lot of blessings in my  life as well as tragedies.  I grew up in a poor but loving home and was never hungry or homeless.  I found love when I was young  which in itself  immensely exciting.  I have two daughters and a grandson who make a father proud.

I went to a free college and had a career which never made me a rich man but allowed our family to live comfortably.  We always owned nice homes, drove decent cars and wanted for nothing.  We always had good health insurance provided through my employers and I was able to retire at 61 with comfortable pensions.

Among my other blessings in life, one other stands out – I have seen a great deal of the world.  Most of my travel was work related and in 1995 I had finally had enough of it.  My eldest daughter had been admitted to the college she always dreamed of attending and excitedly called her dad – who was in a hotel room in Cairo.

When I returned to New York and prior to an upcoming departure for Djakarta, I quit and took a job with the then largest bank in New Jersey.  I took a pay cut but was able to come home every night.  I never got to Indonesia.

Waving goodbye toAsmara – 1965

Where did I travel?  Lots of places.   In America I have seen the majority of the states:

New York, New Jersey,  Vermont, Connecticut, Rhode Island, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Delaware, Pennsylvania, Maryland, Virginia, North Carolina, South Carolina, Georgia, Florida,  Texas, Indiana,  California, Arizona, New Mexico, Washington. Nevada, Idaho, Colorado, Tennessee, Kentucky, Oklahoma, Alabama, Illinois, Hawaii, Puerto Rico and U.S. Virgin Islands.

I have lived in New York, New Jersey, Maryland, Massachusetts, Rhode Island, North Carolina and Florida.  My daughters were born in North Carolina and Rhode Island.

In the military I was stationed in Asmara, Eritrea and traveled to Kenya and Ethiopia at a time when one could still see wild rhinos outside of game reserves.

Elsewhere in the Americas I have spent time in Montreal and Newfoundland, Canada; Bermuda, Mexico City, Rio de Janeiro, Sao Paulo and Brasilia, Brazil.

On the beach in Rio I came to the conclusion that one could die of terminal horniness.

In Venice – 1975

In Europe I have made extended business trips to London, Lisbon, Madrid, Barcelona,  Paris, Rome, Venice, Milan, Athens, and Istanbul.  Three times I flew out of Heathrow on my way home for Christmas loaded with gifts, returning in January.


I have lived and worked in Cairo and Alexandria for several months each year in the mid-nineties and have been to Dubai, Jeddah, Saudi Arabia, Beirut,  Lebanon (during the mid 1960s when it was deemed the “Paris of the Middle East”).


I was a Director of a leasing company in Israel and would travel to Tel Aviv every other month for a couple of years. I saw plenty of Kibbutzim and Moshavim while I was there and made regular trips to Jerusalem.

I had two passports.  One for Israel and one for use in Arab countries so that visa stamps would appear separately.

Work took me to Bombay, (now Mumbai) Bangalore  and New Delhi, India, Karachi and Lahore, Pakistan, Bangkok, Thailand, Hong Kong and Shenzhen, China – when it was a village 25 years ago.

Oh and Colombo, Sri Lanka and the Azores.

At the Badshahi Mosque in Lahore

Unfortunately  I never got Germany or Russia.  If I could make one last trip it would be to St, Petersburg,

Travel gives one a perspective on the world unavailable to those who never leave these shores.  There is something to be said about travel crystallizing your perceptions, honing naïve sentiments into firm sets of belief. Even within the context of culture shock, it can help keep life in perspective. And if you concentrate enough, it can help mold you into the person you strive to be.

Traveling the world through rich and poor nations will reveal to you how lucky you are.

Hamilton, Bermuda


About toritto

I was born during year four of the reign of Emperor Tiberius Claudius on the outskirts of the empire in Brooklyn. I married my high school sweetheart, the girl I took to the prom and we were together for forty years until her passing in 2004. We had four kids together and buried two together. I had a successful career in Corporate America (never got rich but made a living) and traveled the world. I am currently retired in the Tampa Bay metro area and live alone. One of my daughters is close by and one within a morning’s drive. They call their pops everyday. I try to write poetry (not very well), and about family. Occasionally I will try a historical piece relating to politics. :-)
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9 Responses to Toritto’s Travels

  1. Maggie says:

    That’s quite an impressive list of destinations. Do you still have the itch to travel?

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    • toritto says:

      Ah, going on 77 in Sept means my long distance travel is mostly over. And I no longer have the stamina for walking around all day in the hot sun. I was in New York earlier this year for a family funeral and on the Florida Atlantic coast visiting my eldest over the July 4th weekend. But ten or twelve hours in an airplane to St. Petersburg and hiking around the Hermitage and the Yusupov Palace = well those days are unfortunately over.

      Besties from Florida.


  2. Memarge says:

    I know. When I finally was able to travel to my mother’s hometown in Scotland and visit relatives in England, I loved my aunt and uncles and cousins. Although their lifestyles were what in the US is middle class, I was glad to come home to the US.

    My dad’s family no longer has relatives in Mexico but when I visited my grandmother’s hometown in the Central Highlands and learned about our imperial Native American and European royal ancestry, I was stunned! But I was still glad to come home and proud be an American.

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  3. beetleypete says:

    You have pretty much done it all, Frank. I doubt you missed much with Indonesia, but I would recommend Leningrad, if you get the chance. 🙂
    (I know they call it St Petersburg again, but I’m stubborn…)
    Best wishes, Pete.

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  4. charlypriest says:

    Sir, and amazing life. I did have to chucle when you said that in Rio ¨ you almost died of¨ horniness¨. And I´m quite sure that you´ll outlive me and have a great life that you so much worked for. It was a inspiring to read. Thanks,.

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  5. Jennie says:

    Wonderful post, Frank. You have been blessed, and all your travel has given you a great perspective of people and the world. On a side note, I hope you are reading aloud to Clark. Best from Massachusetts.

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